Each year I’d re-do them and in the end, I just didn’t want to go there.
Why bother, I was only going to fail again! I was on the cusp of giving up when I discovered a missing piece that seemed to be overlooked by most of the big goal setting gurus.
What I realised was that it didn’t always matter how hard I worked, how committed I thought I was, Or how much skill and talent I had.
Instead of berating myself as somehow being lazy (I clearly wasn’t) or not committed enough, I suddenly felt aligned and happy!
Things started going my way, opportunities opened up